Tips for (mostly) Stress-Free Family Photos at Your Wedding

Family photos are an important part of your wedding day, but they can also feel a little chaotic if you’re not prepared. Over the years, I’ve learned a few tricks to help keep them organized, quick, and (almost) painless.

One of the ways I help? I work with my couples before the wedding to create a custom family photo list. That way, everyone knows where to be, and you don’t have to stress about forgetting anyone on the day.

1. mAKE THE LIST AHEAD OF TIME

When I work with my couples, I send them a sample family photo list and help them customize it over email — no guesswork, no awkward moments, just a clear plan we can follow when the time comes. If your photographer doesn’t provide a list, feel free to use my go-to list below as a starting point to build your own!

2. APPOINT A PHOTO WRANGLER

Ask a friend or family member who knows everyone to help. This person can track down Uncle Bob, wrangle the kids, and make sure no one wanders off mid-photos.

3. START WITH GRANDPARENTS & KIDS

We’ll usually photograph grandparents and young children first so they can sit down and relax sooner — no need to keep them waiting through every grouping.

4. RELAX AND ENJOY THE MOMENT

Family photos go much more smoothly when everyone is smiling and relaxed. Even if someone forgets where they’re supposed to stand, we’ll figure it out!

My Go-To Family Photo List

Here’s an example of the core groupings I recommend:

• Bride & Groom with bride’s grandparents (both sides together and separate)

• Bride & Groom with bride’s family (include parents, siblings/in-laws, grandparents, & kids)

  • Remove grandparents

  • Then remove Groom, in-laws and kids (just the originals!)

• Bride with her siblings

• Bride with her mom & dad (and each parent individually)

  • Add the groom

Then swap and do the same for the groom’s side. From there, we can add or adjust!

BONUS:

• Bride & Groom with both sets of parents

  • Each of the couples get their own portrait

• Extended family (each side—these work best after the ceremony, communicate with the officiant to announce that family should stay)

With a little planning, family photos can actually be a sweet, meaningful part of your day!